So you’ve found your person—now it’s time to gather your people. Asking your friends to be your bridesmaids is one of the most exciting (and emotional!) parts of
wedding planning. These are the people who will stand by your side, hype you up through fittings and meltdowns, and dance with you until the lights come on.
In 2025, the trend is all about making the “ask” feel as special as the role itself—personal, thoughtful, and totally you.
Whether you’re planning something elaborate or keeping it sweet and simple, here are some of the most popular and meaningful ways to pop the question to your bridal party:
Curated Bridesmaid Proposal Boxes
Proposal boxes continue to be a favorite, but they’ve gotten a modern upgrade.
Brides are personalizing each box based on the recipient’s personality or role in the wedding weekend. Think luxury over quantity—quality candles, custom jewelry, or a mini bottle of Champagne with a handwritten note.
Trend Tip: Neutral-toned, eco-conscious packaging is in, and local artisan-made gifts are a hit.
The Personalized Touch
Handwritten notes never go out of style, especially when they’re paired with something sentimental. A favorite memory, a shared inside joke, or a photo from the early days of your friendship can make this moment feel unforgettable.
Try This: Custom stationery with your wedding date and color palette sets the tone for what’s to come.
Destination Reveals
If you’re planning a destination wedding or batch trip, a reveal box with travel-themed items is a perfect lead-in. Include a mini passport holder, a packing list, or luggage tags with each bridesmaid’s name.
Hot for 2025: Travel reveals that hint at the wedding vibe—tropical themes, wine-country chic, or European summer romance.
